The bad news is that there’s no one who’s going to come and save you on this; no one is going to appear to show you what to do. The good news is that you are your own best and bravest rescuer. When you unearth one thing you didn’t know about yourself, it can be an opportunity to dive in and know all the things you were afraid to. It’s the scariest thing you’ll ever do and the most valuable.
I have to link this
again because it’s a great expression of the terror and power in self-knowledge, in knowing that you’re completely responsible for yourself, but that you have been so utterly wrong about something as fundamental as who that was (via haveyouheardaboutfeminism
So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More Compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe out and decide
When there’s too much shit you need to get done at once
ah yes, but one who never grows up or talks. weeee
I met up with my best friend after work and I was like
yessssssss. those would go great with my giant martini glass….
this sums up my interaction with most people
this is the ducking truest